So, I have done it all, I cheated, I have been cheated on and currently I am the girl some guy is betraying his girlfriend with. Fancy.
My explanation for me is plain and simple; I was done with my relationship, I cheated, which was wrong, I confessed and broke up with him (not 4 weeks later, but the day after). Doesn’t make it a story to be proud of, but at least I confessed.
Not so long after that I met my ex-boyfriend, who cheated on me after we had been together for a year, but didn’t tell me untill I found out about it two years later. I was hurt, damaged and lost all my faith in men.
My faith in men has never been restored, actually it only got worse, around me I only see men (and women) cheating on their significant others, but for some reason this cheating does not serve as an eye-opener, as they do not leave their partner. So why cheat? I mean if you want to cheat that means your relationship isn’t as good as it should be right?
Currently I am, no other way to put it, in a sex-affair with a guy. He has a girlfriend, they haven’t been together for a long time (only a few months) which in my opinion makes it worse, I mean you should still be head over heals in love right? We see each other a couple times a week, he spends the night, we talk and we have sex. A LOT OF SEX. I am not saying that what I am doing is right, but what he is doing is far worse. For the first time I feel like I am in control, I am in this with KNOWING that I am not his number one, for that reason I can never gt hurt (at least that’s what it feels like now). People tell me differently, if she finds out, he is going to drop you – and you have nobody to be angry at but yourself.
So why do people cheat? Especially when you have just entered into a relationship.
FYI: the guy I am seeing has a perfectly good looking girlfriend, they do have sex and she is not boring…